One final suggestion might be finding room for some intentional humor in the midst of some of our denominational gatherings. The planned interjection of some humor in the midst of our deliberations might soften the tone as we seek what is best for the larger church. Most gatherings feel the pressure of time constraints but here is one possibility that might fit into an agenda with favorable benefits.
Have the people in the meeting cluster in small groups of not more than four or five participants right in the meeting place. Ask them to spend about 15-20 minutes recalling some of the funny experiences that each have experienced in the church. Having shared their stories, they are asked to pick out one to share with the entire group. This way everyone will get a chance to share, but without taking an enormous amount of time the whole group can experience some of the classic stories. An experience like this might help people transcend ideological divides and sense a new form of community.
The Westminster Confession begins with the question, “What is the chief end of man (humanity)?” Its classic answer as to the purpose of our humanity is to “glorify God and enjoy God forever.” Sometimes I fear that in attempting to do the first part, we fail to participate in the second part. The result is a fractured church that fails to glorify God as we should. “Have you heard the one about . . .”